MBOMBELA- Are dress codes compulsory or is it pure discrimination?
Patrons are expected to dress appropriately at restaurants. Establishments in Sonpark have recently enforced a dress code policy for patrons. This sparked debate across social media platforms leaving many divided.
At three establishments, Cicada, Urban House and Upperdeck, notices can be visibly seen at near the entrances. Two female students who wished to remain anonymous said they were asked to leave Urban House a few weeks ago. This did
not sit well with them as they felt they are being dictated to.
“We are young and we can wear whatever we want at any given time. Why are they concerned about what we are wearing when all we want is to have a good time,”? asked one patron.
Another social media user accused the establishments of being unfair and unnecessary saying married women are the reason the code of conduct was enforced. However, the center argues that public spaces reflect the values of a community, and the way people present themselves within those spaces matters.
Spokesperson, Jaques Lombard appointed on behalf of the center pointed out that in recent months, managers of shopping centre and restaurants have voiced growing concern over a trend among young adults. “The issue is no longer just about fashion—it is about standards, respect, and preserving the dignity of shared environments.”
He goes on to explain that shopping malls centres and restaurants are not nightclubs.
“They are spaces where parents bring children, professionals meet clients, and families gather for everyday moments. When attire slips into the provocative or inappropriate, it undermines the very atmosphere these establishments work hard to maintain. No parent should feel uncomfortable explaining to a child why someone is dressed for a late-night party while walking through a mall, shopping centre or dining at a restaurant,” said Lombard.
He further explained in detail:
Atmosphere Matters
Restaurants, particularly those that pride themselves on fine dining, know that ambience is just as important as the food served. Patrons choose these establishments for a full experience—an environment of sophistication, elegance, and comfort. Casual, revealing, or nightclub-style dress does not align with this experience and can cheapen it for others. A proper dress code ensures that every guest contributes positively to the environment.
Respect Is Non-Negotiable
At the heart of the matter is respect. Dressing appropriately signals respect for oneself, respect for others, and respect for the establishment. A shopping centre, restaurant and even a Sports bar is not just another venue; it is a space that exists to serve the broader public. When individuals ignore standards of dress, they send a message of disregard for the people around them. Dress codes help protect against this erosion of mutual respect.
A Call to Action
Critics argue that dress codes are outdated, but this is a misconception. Standards are never outdated—they are the backbone of community life. Shopping centre and restaurants that enforce dress codes are not trying to stifle individuality; they are upholding dignity, protecting families, and ensuring that public spaces remain inclusive and welcoming for all.
The time has come for more establishments to take a firm stance. Without clear boundaries, public spaces risk losing the very quality that makes them enjoyable and safe for everyone. Dress codes are not about fashion—they are about values.
